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Characteristics
of Gifted Children (continued)
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Early
Insight into Social/Moral Issues:
Some young gifted children have a
well developed social conscience
and may become very concerned about
wars, pollution and other kinds of
injustice and violence. They often
see through adult hypocrisy and
cover-up and may display fear and
anger when they discover that
adults can be inconsistent and
unreasonable.
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Greater
Reasoning Power
and Manipulation:
Young gifted children tend to
use their verbal ability, rather
than actions, for communication.
Generally, it is possible to reason
with them from a very early age. At
times, their verbal ability,
combined with their greater
reasoning powers and
understanding of human
relationships, may be put to use
arguing with and trying to outsmart
parents and teachers. Their
abilities may lead
them to discover the advantages of
dishonest behavior, such as lying
and stealing, at an early age.
Although credit needs to be given
for convincing, logical arguments, it is very important that normal discipline
applies to gifted children since it is a very insecure feeling for a
young child to realize they are able to manipulate
adults.
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Social
Skills:
Most gifted children are also
socially very able and get along
well with others, frequently
showing strong leadership
abilities.
However, even from an early
age, they may see themselves as "different." Their more
sophisticated vocabulary and
advanced sense of humor is often
not understood by other children
and this may lead to feelings of
inferiority and rejection. For this
reason, gifted children may
associate more with older children
and adults. It can be very
important for some gifted children
to find other gifted children with
whom to communicate. Although it is
important for them to have someone
who truly understands them, this
may be difficult to achieve.
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Individuality:
Many gifted children may be seen as
"weird" or unconventional. They may have great
fantasy and creativity and develop
their own, unique style of
learning. It is important that
these children are not constantly
organized, but have a chance to do
their "own thing": a time
for solitude, reflection, and creativity.
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Importance of
Adults:
Gifted children may not be
interested in very structured
activities or meeting others'
standards, often preferring to
develop their own projects. Despite
this, adult guidance is very
important to help them determine when they need to conform and when it's okay to
be "different," set realistic limits on an often
over-ambitious project, lend a
hand when manual dexterity doesn't
meet mental visions and avoid
self-criticism becoming
destructive. Help may be needed to
set realistic standards.
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Perfectionism:
Often the gifted children set very
high standards for themselves,
getting frustrated and angry when
they discover they may not have the
manual dexterity to complete
envisaged projects. Sometimes,
knowing they are unable to complete
the task to their own standards,
they may refuse to do it at all.
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Source:
Adapted
from various sources by Rene Thomas Folse, J.D., Ph.D., The
Child Psychologist.
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